A time has come that I have just as many teenagers in the house, as I do, little kids. It sucks.
I have a kid who’s running a snack shop out of a second backpack that he takes to school. Mind you, this is not something I authorized.
He just took his birthday money as seed money and bought his inventory that rivals and prices that undercuts, the ice cream truck.
I found out today his net income is about $50 a week. A week!
HE’S NOT EVEN IN HIGH SCHOOL YET!
He has a log that he keeps track of his inventory in. He knows what’s going out and how much is coming in. Today, after stocking up on chips, he sent a mass text to all his customers informing them of tomorrow’s “sales”.
Seriously? Who’s kid is this?
I would be lying if I said I wasn’t proud of him. But it does make me feel uncomfortable.
Being a single mom for so many years and then marrying and having to provide for even more kids, we never have had enough cash flow to trickle down in the form of allowances until just recently.
All of my kids, at one time or another, has wanted to start something to earn money. I’ve just never let them, in fear of them ripping off our community.
A few months before Christmas, I had another one of my kids snatch the opportunity during a Pampered Chef party, to go out and advertise his services for cleaning up pet waste and pulling weeds, before I knew what he was doing or could stop him.
The little booger was raking in $10 for two days of after school work, every two weeks.
This one’s not even in Jr High.
I kinda feel bad for my oldest. He never learned he could hustle too, just as long as mom never found out.
At seven, I caught him tying his Halloween candy to strings and selling them as candy necklaces for $1 outside our townhouse. Also caught him selling his Tec Deck skateboards for $6 a pop at school.
The issue I’m having now, isn’t that I’m afraid of them ripping someone off, but the power they think they have because they have money.
I’m having problems, particularly with my 14 year old retail entrepreneur and his 15 year old roommate, who think they are single college bachelor’s and can’t understand why they can’t have an ice chest in their bedroom to store cold soda, even though they KNOW they are not allowed to have any food or drinks in the bedrooms.
These two, who which are part of the reason we have a second fridge and freezer in a garage, that can’t be opened, unless by key that is hidden in my husband and my bedroom; thinks it’s unfair and doesn’t understand why they can’t keep their food in their room so others can’t get into it.
I say, then don’t buy it, if you think there’s going to be a problem. Sucks not being able to trust those you live with, don’t it.
After listening to them argue with, and complain about, and try to “reason” with me All. Day. Long, I tell them tonight we will talk to Mike.
After giving my husband the grueling details of my day, I call my two swindlers into our room to let them plead their case for an ice chest.
The one makes his request. My husband looks them straight in the eye, says “No.” And my son says, “OK.” and gets up to leave.
All day long they gave me nothing but grief. I stood my ground. They almost had me swayed, but I didn’t. And these kids are mastermind manipulators!
“I’m over it”, he says. Well, I’m not! Oooh… I’m….going out for a walk!
Dear God in Heaven, this is a whole different game we’re playing now. These kids are getting smarter and more devious than me. It will be only by your grace that I won’t be out witted. So I continue to ask you for your help, your strength and your will to parent these delinquents.
May Mike and I always be a united force, no matter how frustrating I find it at times. May we continue to think as one. May we serve you well, as we raise your sons and daughter.